My ABC Steps Towards Success

 MY ABC STEPS TOWARDS SUCCESS

Episode 1

Everyone wants success but not everyone succeeds. We fail because we refuse to follow the steps towards success. Dear friend, if you want to succeed in life, these are my steps towards success. There may be many other steps framed by different people. However, if you follow these given steps faithfully, I guarantee you success in whatever you do. For easy remembrance we shall follow alphabetical order: 

A: Attention- Pay full attention in what you do. Attention is all that matters. You may study as many as 10 to 12 hours in a day, but without attention you are doing nothing. It is such a big challenge in this digital era where distraction comes from every notification. But if you really want to succeed in what you do, you have to overcome those distractions with your full attention. 

B: Best- Give your best. To me, ‘Giving my best is my greatest achievement.’ What can I do more than my best? We find satisfaction when we give our best. Let me tell you my story: During my higher secondary days I did not top my class, however the topper envied me. I worked hard and I was satisfied with my scores. She got better marks, but she was not satisfied because she didn’t give her best. We are born with different capacities, yet we can excel people who are more capable than us if we give our best in our work consistently.

C: Consistency- You may pay full attention and give your best in your work but if you are not consistent, it will lead you to nowhere. Rome was not built in a day. I learn a very important lesson from Nas Daily. Nuseir Yassin is an Israeli-Arab video blogger who created 1,000 daily 1-minute videos on Facebook, under the page Nas Daily. With that consistency he has become very successful and popular. He has now 17 million followers. He currently operates the Nas Daily Corporation, a video production company that uploads inspirational videos on a weekly basis. Martin Luther once said, “If you can’t fly then run, if you can’t run then walk, if you can’t walk then crawl, but whatever you do you have too keep moving forward.’’

D: Discouragement- Our next step towards success is to overcome discouragement.  Discouragement comes in everyone's life. He who is vanquished by it ends in bitterness and regret. There are so many reasons which can discourage us, we must overcome and move on towards our goal. This leads us to our next step- 

E: Excuse- Excuses are for losers. Ask any successful person you may know, they will tell you the way toward success was never smooth. If you are someone who complains about the unfavorable conditions in your life, you have to check your attitude. Good roads do not make a good driver, and smooth seas do not make a skilled sailor. With the struggles and difficulties, you faced you become a better person. 

F: Failure- Failure is not opposite to success but it is one of the steps towards success. Not trying is opposite to success. Giving up is the opposite to success. Fear for failure is opposite to success. Failure is not the opposite to success. We learn more by failures. You may fail in life but as long as you are willing to take the next step you are not a loser. 

I want to end today’s episode with a verse from the Bible, “If you falter in a time of trouble, how small is your strength!” ‭‭Proverbs‬ ‭24:10‬ ‭NIV‬‬.

We shall continue the next steps in the next episode. 

Till then, bye. 

Thank you for your time and attention.

CONTAGIOUS!

“God wants us to become contagious…. who will first catch his love and then urgently and infectiously offer it to all who are willing to consider it.” - Bill Hybels. 

The contagious and infectious novel coronavirus was first detected in Wuhan, China in late 2019. This virus is so contagious that it has spread all over the world within a few months and has set off a global pandemic. Everyone fears to be infected by the virus that the Government declared Lockdown and the Health Ministry announced social distancing rules; we should keep a distance of at least one meter between us. This made me ponder on the word ‘contagious’. Is this virus alone contagious? No, there are so many things even more contagious than the virus. Your smile is contagious. Enthusiasm is contagious. Fear is contagious. Faith is contagious. Even our attitude is contagious.

To be contagious we first need to be infected:

The only person who can infect coronavirus is the one who already is infected. You can not give someone what you do not have. Likewise, you can not love someone unless the love is in you. ‘Love your neighbours as you love yourself.’ Luke 12:31. Love is contagious yet not everybody can give it to others. Only someone who has love can show love. Do you have the love of Christ? Do you love like Him?

To infect we need to be contacted:

The word ‘contagious’ comes from Latin contagio "touching, contact." Through only contact we get infected. The idea behind social distancing is not to keep in contact with others to avoid infection. “So then, as we have opportunity, let us do good to everyone, and especially to those who are of the household of faith.” (‭‭Galatians‬ ‭6:10‬ ‭ESV)‬‬. The Bible tells us to love our neighbors as we love ourselves and to do good especially to the household of faith because they are in contact with us. It is very hard to do something good to people we do not know in unknown places. On one hand, this Lockdown can be an opportunity for us to be with our family members and infect them with the good qualities in us. On the other hand, in spite of the lockdown and social distance, we can still keep in contact (through social media) and infect our Love, Faith and Hope to others who are not with us physically. We can not be contagious without being in contact.

Be aware of what you have transmitted: 

Words are contagious. Fear is contagious. Attitude is contagious. We do not even realise how children pick up slang words, bad attitudes and fear. They learnt from us! If you dislike the qualities of the people nearby you, there is a very high chance that they are imitating you. It is likely that you infected them. We should be aware of our contagiousness whether in positive or in negative aspects. 

What good qualities can we infect others with?

Without much effort we can infect enthusiasm and optimism. “And we know that for those who love God all things work together for good, for those who are called according to his purpose.” (‭‭Romans‬ ‭8:28‬ ‭ESV‬‬). If you are a born-again Christian but always pessimistic, you have to check your relationship with God. A good Christian cannot afford to be always pessimistic for God is Sovereign in everything. It is natural for human beings to be emotionally down when we are locked down and have less motion. Yet, we can take this opportunity to pursue our passion, new skills, new hobbies and infect our neighbors with our enthusiasm.  We are so blessed to be in this century that anyone can learn as much or even more than those who are in university, through online and internet. There are millions of free books available online, millions of videos on YouTube which can help us improve our knowledge and skills. There will be no excuse for us to the next generation.

Likewise, if our Christian life doesn’t infect others with the love of Jesus Christ there will be no excuse for us to tell Jesus when we meet Him.

You are contagious. What are you infecting others with?